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Is It Possible to Be Gay and Not Know It?

We've all heard stories about gay or queer people who've been aware of who and what they were their entire lives. Many can even remember having their first crushes on people of the same sex way back when they were kids. However, while some people self-identify as gay, bi, or queer very early in life, it's important to realize that other people have a much less straightforward journey to self-realization.

Even here in the 21^st^ century, most people still assume straightness of others unless they have a good reason not to. Many folks even assume it of themselves, especially if they come from conservative backgrounds, so yes. It's entirely possible to be gay and not really know it. However, there are usually signs that point toward the truth. Do any of the following sound familiar?

Lack of Desire for the Opposite Sex

It's more common than you think for

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Queer Threesomes 101: A Checklist for You and Your Partner

It's finally happening! After ages of simply fantasizing about it, you've finally talked to your partner about having a threesome, and he was just as interested in the idea as you were. Of course, you're excited, not to mention eager to take the next step and get right down to business.

Don't make the mistake of simply diving right in at the earliest opportunity though. Threesomes are just like anything else worth doing in life in that planning things out properly makes for a much better experience all around. The following are just a few of things you'll want to keep in mind.

Come to an Agreement on Ground Rules

Picking out a guy together the next time you hit your favorite bar and letting things unfold spontaneously may sound sexy, but you really want to talk things out first. Communication is key when it comes to any sort of

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Is He Gay: 6 Clues To Look For

There are lots of reasons why you might not want to just come right out and ask someone whether they're gay. Maybe you're super curious about a coworker or acquaintance you're crushing on, but don't want to risk making them uncomfortable. Maybe you're just not the type to ask people really personal questions about their love lives, but that hardly means you don't want to know.

Thankfully there are a lot of little tells and habits most non-open gay or bi guys have in common, so understanding what to look for can be pretty helpful in making an educated guess. The following are some good examples to be aware of.

1. He doesn't say much about his social life.

Sometimes it's not what someone says, so much as it's what they don't say. Every gay, bi, or queer person is different when it comes to how "out" they

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Sexual Fluidity: What Does It Really Mean?

Have you ever known or met someone who identified as sexually fluid? Perhaps you've even wondered whether or not you could be described as sexually fluid yourself. "Sexual fluidity" is something we're hearing about more and more often these days as people become increasingly more open about their sexuality, but many people still aren't quite sure what the term really means.

So what is sexual fluidity anyway, and what is it like to date someone who's sexually fluid? What do gay and bisexual men need to know about sexually fluidity if they're interested in exploring someone who identifies that way? How can you tell whether you might be sexually fluid? Let's take a closer look at the answers to all of these questions and more.

What Is Sexual Fluidity?

Sexually fluidity may in part be as hard to define as it is because the term itself can mean

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What You Need to Know Before Dating a Bi Guy

Gay guys and bi guys definitely have a lot in common when it comes to dating. Both gays and bis know what it’s like to navigate the complicated world of dating or hooking up in world that caters primarily to straight folks. Plus everyone is ultimately looking for fulfilling connections that meet their needs. 

There are a lot of differences you’ll want to be aware of as well though, especially if you’re completely new to dating bisexual men. The following are some of the most important examples. Which ones sound the most familiar? 

His sleeping with women doesn’t mean he’s manlier. 

It’s not uncommon for gay men to fetishize bisexual men because they think an attraction to women is going to guarantee a more stereotypically masculine personality. First of all, it’s not necessarily

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