Tips for Gay Dating and Gay Hookups

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4 Game Changing Features to Look for in Your Next Gay Cruising App

As useful as popular dating apps like Tinder can be when you're looking for the right connection, they're definitely notalways the right fit for everyone. Sometimes a guy just wants some easy, no-strings-attached action with another guy without having to figure out who on a given platform is actually looking for the same thing.

Making the switch to a platform that's all about gay hookups and nothing but is a good place to start for sure. However, there's more you should be looking for if you're serious about having the best possible user experience. Here are a few essentials to start with.

1. Strong Priority Placed on Privacy

Let's face it. No matter how sex-positive and open you are as a person, what you do with other consenting adults in private is nobody's business but yours. However, not every dating or hookup interface takes privacy as seriously as you'd hope.

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Queer Threesomes 101: A Checklist for You and Your Partner

It's finally happening! After ages of simply fantasizing about it, you've finally talked to your partner about having a threesome, and he was just as interested in the idea as you were. Of course, you're excited, not to mention eager to take the next step and get right down to business.

Don't make the mistake of simply diving right in at the earliest opportunity though. Threesomes are just like anything else worth doing in life in that planning things out properly makes for a much better experience all around. The following are just a few of things you'll want to keep in mind.

Come to an Agreement on Ground Rules

Picking out a guy together the next time you hit your favorite bar and letting things unfold spontaneously may sound sexy, but you really want to talk things out first. Communication is key when it comes to any sort of

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How To Make Hellish Hookups a Thing of the Past

If you can't imagine life without GuyHop, Grindr, and Scruff, then you don't need to be told there's a lot to like about hookups when they actually go well. You get laid by a hot guy you're wildly attracted to, but it's understood that the two of you don't owe each other anything else. You have your good time and then go about your separate lives... or at least that's the way you hope things will go.

As awesome as great hookups can be, the really bad ones are often bad enough to make you rethink casual sex altogether. Thankfully there is such a thing as a game plan that can make it easier to shut a really bad hookup down before things have a chance to get out of hand. Here's how to put it into play for yourself.

His Place or Yours?

Although everyone has their preferences as

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Sexual Fluidity: What Does It Really Mean?

Have you ever known or met someone who identified as sexually fluid? Perhaps you've even wondered whether or not you could be described as sexually fluid yourself. "Sexual fluidity" is something we're hearing about more and more often these days as people become increasingly more open about their sexuality, but many people still aren't quite sure what the term really means.

So what is sexual fluidity anyway, and what is it like to date someone who's sexually fluid? What do gay and bisexual men need to know about sexually fluidity if they're interested in exploring someone who identifies that way? How can you tell whether you might be sexually fluid? Let's take a closer look at the answers to all of these questions and more.

What Is Sexual Fluidity?

Sexually fluidity may in part be as hard to define as it is because the term itself can mean

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7 Rules of Thumb to Remember When Sleeping with Someone New

Whether you’re taking a new relationship partner to bed for the very first time or just hooking up with someone hot for something to do on a Saturday night, sleeping with someone new naturally inspires a lot of different emotions. It’s exciting and sexy – the type of experience that really gives you a high. However, it can also be anxiety-inducing, scary, and nerve-wracking.

You pretty much always want the experience to be good for both of you, whether you’re planning on seeing the person again or not, so a little preparedness goes a long way. The following are a few unspoken, unwritten rules to keep in mind to make sure you have a night to remember, as opposed to a disaster you’d really rather forget.

  1. Open with conversation.

Even if you’ve both made it clear you’re only

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