Tips for Gay Dating and Gay Hookups

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4 Game Changing Features to Look for in Your Next Gay Cruising App

As useful as popular dating apps like Tinder can be when you're looking for the right connection, they're definitely notalways the right fit for everyone. Sometimes a guy just wants some easy, no-strings-attached action with another guy without having to figure out who on a given platform is actually looking for the same thing.

Making the switch to a platform that's all about gay hookups and nothing but is a good place to start for sure. However, there's more you should be looking for if you're serious about having the best possible user experience. Here are a few essentials to start with.

1. Strong Priority Placed on Privacy

Let's face it. No matter how sex-positive and open you are as a person, what you do with other consenting adults in private is nobody's business but yours. However, not every dating or hookup interface takes privacy as seriously as you'd hope.

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7 Rules of Thumb to Remember When Sleeping with Someone New

Whether you’re taking a new relationship partner to bed for the very first time or just hooking up with someone hot for something to do on a Saturday night, sleeping with someone new naturally inspires a lot of different emotions. It’s exciting and sexy – the type of experience that really gives you a high. However, it can also be anxiety-inducing, scary, and nerve-wracking.

You pretty much always want the experience to be good for both of you, whether you’re planning on seeing the person again or not, so a little preparedness goes a long way. The following are a few unspoken, unwritten rules to keep in mind to make sure you have a night to remember, as opposed to a disaster you’d really rather forget.

  1. Open with conversation.

Even if you’ve both made it clear you’re only

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9 Truths That Make Gay Dating Tougher Than Straight Dating

Dating is already pretty tough for lots of reasons. Between trying to figure out what’s going on in another person’s head, meeting suitable people to even consider, and finding the time to date in the first place, you definitely have your work cut out for you. Now add being gay to the mix and things get even more complicated.

If you’re like most gay men, you didn’t grow up seeing what you’re looking for modeled in the media you consume or in other couples around you. That can make it a challenge to figure out what you’re really looking for, especially when you consider most other gay men are in the exact same boat. The following hard truths about life as a gay man can make dating even more of a mind-bender as compared to straight dating.

  1. Most

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Online Dating 101: Creating a Profile That Gets Results

If you’re like a lot of gay guys, you probably have a love/hate relationship with gay dating apps and with good reason. On the one hand, you can’t beat the convenient access to hundreds of eligible gay men in search of the same thing you are. On the other, it can sometimes feel difficult to impossible to really stand out in such a huge crowd.

So how can you make sure yours is the profile that stops a serious hottie in his tracks when he’s mindlessly swiping through an endless selection of options? Sure, it helps to be a stone fox that’s photogenic almost to a fault, but there’s definitely hope for the rest of us as well. Keep the following tips in mind as you give your profile a second look and you’ll be attracting more

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Dating and Meeting New People in a New City

Getting your bearings in a new city can definitely be a mixed bag. On the one hand, being somewhere completely new can be exciting and inspiring. It’s a chance to start fresh or reinvent yourself completely. When it comes to your love life though, a totally unfamiliar city can be really intimidating, especially if you’re gay, bisexual, or queer.

The “gay-friendly” factor can vary drastically from city to city, so it takes time to figure things out. If you’re going from a diverse urban area to a small town, things can be even more challenging. Here we’ll go over a few tips for meeting new people and making sense of the gay dating scene when you’re navigating your way through an unfamiliar city. You’ll be dating like a pro again in no time!

Take Some Time

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